The Right To Love
I think the only reason I love as deep as I do is because of what my parents did to me as a child. When we do this and take the loving actions that contradict our critical self-image, we enhance our own sense of worth and are able to get closer to the people we love. You become a better person No one is perfect; we all have room for improvement.
We must teach the others to continue to choose the right and stay on His paths. Not only has it increased in profiles but its also proving to lead to more successful matches.
BibleGateway - Love is inherently free. You can make it.
The right person will want you to be emotionally healthy and able to stand on your own two feet. When you are with the right person you will feel good about yourself, safe, and fulfilled. Why spend your life with a jerk? We define loving actions as doing things such as noticing when you are tired, remembering your birthday, wanting to spend time with you, listening to you, showing you respect, calling if you are running late, showing you affection, being patient with you if you don't understand something, kissing you hello and goodbye, and hugging you for no particular reason. If the two of you view sexual intimacy differently or have vastly different libidos, your marriage relationship will suffer. The right person will enjoy spending time with you. Your love and your marriage will slowly fade if the two of you are not friends. Little things in life such as saying 'thank you' and holding a door open may seem old fashioned, but they do reflect the amount of caring and kindness in a person. Although you may not always agree with one another, conversations with the right person will be interesting and not boring. The right person will communicate thoughts and feelings with you and will not keep hurts and concerns bottled up inside. The right person will want to work with you to balance your work and personal lives. The right person is willing to share in the responsibilities of your home and future children. However, with the right person you will know that the two of you will be able to work through the issues that could hurt your relationship. You should also believe that your partner would seek professional help if you both were unable to work things through on your own. You will know you are marrying the right person if your future spouse does not try to isolate you from your family and friends. You not only need to belong to family, friends, groups, etc. The right person in your life will not try to control your life but will want to share a life with you. The wrong person will make you feel as if you have to walk on egg shells in order to keep peace in your home. You will know you are marrying the right person when you are not questioned about your need for time alone or personal space. Feeling as if you have to justify your every move will become a very heavy burden.